(DISCLAIMER: Sorry OSP has been a little MIA. One of your faithful bloggers is on her honeymoon; the other was out of town for work then vacation. We still love you though.)
I’m not going to lie. Sometimes when I feel like I’ve been crossed I turn into a petulant six year old whose first instinct is to stomp my feet and throw things. Normally I don’t act on this instinct but to be honest, sometimes acting like a silly child really does make me feel better. In the story that follows, I had a partner-in-crime who indulges my silliness for better or for worse. In this case, it was clearly for the better.
A few years ago, I dated a French guy, let’s call him Perdant (google translate that word and you’ll see it’s appropriate). Perdant was…interesting. He was the kind of guy who shunned TV (“ezz boaring”), listened to music called “noise,” listened to said music only on cassette or vinyl, wore super tight jeans, lived like a hobo and brought sherry to parties. Perdant entertained me so I kept seeing him. I also liked the accent. I ended up moving to DC during the time I was seeing him and we kept up a sort of semi-relationship long-distance. All of a sudden, Perdant stopped returning my calls, texts and emails. I made sure he wasn’t dead through a friend who worked in the same building he worked in, chalked this lack of communication up to the very French existential crisis he was going through (swear to God we actually had a conversation about whether he was actually a scientist (he had his PHd), what did it mean for him to be a scientist, where did he belong, blah blah blah…I may have tuned out about halfway through, just sayin’) and moved on to Shooter. Four months later, I get an email from Perdant telling me that he was seeing someone else, that it was serious and that he didn’t think it was a good idea for us to get together before, but that I should say hello next time I was home. I was pissed that this communication came four months late, but by that point, I figured he was a weird jerk and I was better without him.
I ended up back home for part of the summer last year. Out of my sense of curiosity (apparently I’m a glutton for punishment when it comes to men) I reached out to Perdant to see if he would want to meet up. He responded immediately, “Yes, let’s get together.” So we set up plans to meet at a bar for happy hour. I showed up on time, found a table, ordered a Sam Adams and waited. And waited. And waited. One hour and two beers later, I realized I had been stood up. I emailed Perdant, trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and said, “Did I mix up the dates? I was at the bar, but you never showed.” No reply for three weeks. At this point, his name got carved in stone in the dickhead category. Two days before I was set to leave the country for two months he emailed me and said that he was so sorry for not showing up, and asked if could we get together now. I said that I was busy every second until I left for Europe and had no time for him.
Usually, I get great satisfaction out of being cold and mean to people who have offended me. This time though, my petulance kicked in. Being mean wasn’t enough, I needed to exact revenge in some other petty way for two years of dickheadedness (that’s French, look it up). My first thought was to TP his house—but he lived in an apartment so that was quickly nixed. I turned to my partner-in-crime and fellow founder of the FSP (Former Senate Pages, a secret spy agency we created after going to the Spy Museum…we might write each other letters in invisible ink…) for ideas. I should note that she also works in the same building he worked in. Our brainstorming session led nowhere, or so I thought.
Two days later, my PIC told me that she had exacted revenge. While she was walking down the hall, she stepped on a dirty rubber eraser in the shape of a pig. She proceeded to place said pig eraser in Perdant’s mailbox and then ran like crazy out of the mailroom. I’m sure that Perdant has written some “noise” about this incident. Was it the most ridiculous, silly, childish, petty thing a person could do for her friend? Yes. Did it make me feel about a million times better? Yes. Sometimes pulling a childish prank is just what you need to deal with ridiculous adults.